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7 Key Benefits of Family Mediation After Separation or Divorce

By Lara Davies on May 28, 2025

Learn about the benefits of family mediation

The Benefits of Family Mediation: A Smarter Way to Resolve Disputes

When a relationship ends, the stress of sorting out finances, property, or childcare can feel overwhelming. But going straight to court isn’t your only option.

Family mediation offers a calmer, more constructive way to reach agreement. Below are the key reasons why it’s often the smartest first step after a separation or divorce.

1. You Stay in Control

Unlike court, where decisions are made by a judge, mediation puts you in charge. You and your ex decide the outcome – working together to find solutions that fit your lives. It’s about cooperation, not confrontation.

2. Faster and More Affordable Than Court

Court battles can drag on for months and cost thousands in legal fees. Mediation is typically much quicker – and significantly cheaper. Many families resolve everything in just a few sessions.

3. Reduces Conflict – Especially Important for Children

Mediation encourages respectful discussion. It helps parents communicate better and focus on what’s best for their children – not on “winning” or “losing.”

4. Flexible and Confidential

Mediation is informal and private. You can speak freely, explore ideas, and reach agreements tailored to your circumstances – without the rigid structure of court.

5. Agreements Can Be Made Legally Binding

Worried that mediation won’t stand up legally? Once you’ve reached an agreement, it can be turned into a legally binding consent order, giving you the reassurance of court enforcement without the stress of a full hearing.

Citizens Advice explains how to make your agreement legally binding.

6. Helps You Move On with Less Stress

Resolving matters through mediation gives you peace of mind. You can move forward with your life – whether that means focusing on your children, finances, or emotional wellbeing – without the baggage of a courtroom battle.

7. Makes Instructing a Solicitor Simpler (and Cheaper)

If you’re working with a solicitor, mediation can significantly reduce your legal costs:

Fewer disputes = fewer solicitor letters
Clear agreements = faster drafting of court paperwork
Courts prefer it – mediation shows you’ve tried to resolve things amicably
Better use of your solicitor’s time – less arguing, more legal advice

Put simply, mediation makes the legal process smoother and more cost-effective.

Is Mediation Right for You?

Mediation works best when both parties are willing to talk openly and respectfully. It’s not suitable in cases involving domestic abuse, but for most families, it’s the best first step.

If you’re separating, start with mediation. And when you’ve reached an agreement, we can help you make it legally binding.

Need help turning your agreement into a legally binding court order?

We offer a fixed-fee Consent Order service for £799 + VAT, which includes expert drafting and submission to court.

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Author

Lara Davies

Lara Jayne Davies is a Director and Head of Legal Practice at OLS Solicitors. She specialises in complex financial disputes, private children matters, and Inheritance Act claims. Lara is known for her work supporting vulnerable clients and has particular insight into representing fathers in private child proceedings. Outside of law, Lara is a competitive dressage rider for Wales and endurance runner.
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